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Chapter 10 - Managing Behavior

Giving Instructions that Matter

Your instructions should be about something that matters and that you really want your child to do. There are some instructions that are important for children to follow, but there are also instructions that really do not matter. We want to eliminate the unnecessary instructions. Give your child only the instructions that you really want him/her to follow.

Example

You are coloring with your child:

Unnecessary Instructions Only What Matters

You say: "Color the ball blue."
You say: "Color the dog brown."
You say: "Color the sun yellow."

Each of these is an instruction. That is three instructions in a very short time. When you think about it, none of these instructions is important.

 

 

 

You talk about what you're doing: "I like coloring."
"I'm making a yellow sun."

At the end of the activity, you give an instruction: "It's time to put the crayons in the box."

This is an important instruction that you do want your child to do. If you eliminate the first 3 unnecessary instructions and save your use of instructions for the really important one you help your child.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
 

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