What are some ways to prompt
my child to take a talking turn in a conversation?
Sometimes children who are having trouble communicating
don't want to or won't take their turn in a conversation.
Maybe they have learned to stay quiet so someone else will
do the talking. Maybe they haven't had time to talk (many
children take a while to be able to say something). Maybe
they have become self-conscious about how they talk and
are afraid to try. There can be many reasons why a child
is not taking their turn in a conversation. If your child
doesn't take his/her turn after you have paused for at least
5 seconds you can prompt children to take their turn in
the following ways:
Model - Something that
you say in order to get your child to imitate you
Example:
Parent:
"say red ball"
Child:
"red ball"
Parent:
"will you say candy?"
Child:
"candy"
Direction - A suggestion
that you give to your child that requires an answer
Example:
Parent:
"tell me your name"
Child:
"Johnny"
Parent:
"count the bears"
Child:
"no"
Ask for an Explanation
- When you don't understand your child's talking
Example:
Child : "mumbles"
Parent:
"What did you say?"
Child:
"I want xxxx"
Parent:
"Hmmm?"